Is it true that whatever happens to you in your early childhood, will determine all your choices in life?
I heard or read this when I was a kid and was always quite rebellious to the idea. But now I am adult and look back on my decisions in my life and it certaily seems like those early years were very influencial. I believe I was molested as a kid, and I have never been able to realy gain any self control in my life. Its almost like I was rebellious to the idea because I was molested and didnt want to accept that who ever molested me would have some kind of influence in my later life, via my childhood. I wanted to believe that anyones life is not determined that way. That I can be a free person and determine my own destiny. But the more I look at my life the more I see failure, pain, and unhappiness. I sappose I just didnt want to accept that ’sex’ really is very important part of life that dominates our thoughts and our decesions. I hope Im not crazy.
Thats a hard question. I have to beleive yes that what happens to us early on seems to set the pace for adulthood. Thats why its so important for people to break the chain. Make sure that whatever happened to you doesn’t go into the next generation. People need to get help for them to deal with what went on in their past. I know that it would be hard for you beleiving that this person that might have molested you had so much power and control over your destiny. Go get some help now, so that you can take back that power. I think it would be a good idea for you to seek counseling. Your life doesn’t have to continue to be filled with pain and unhappiness. Don’t let this monstor control you anymore.
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